You can't know if you're living "right" until you define what "right" actually means—to you, not to your parents, your culture, or your partner. Sovereignty begins with the articulation of your personal moral architecture.
Values are not performance art. They are the ingredients of your identity. Most conflict arises not from bad intentions, but from a lack of clarity on which value wins when they eventually collide.
Select the values that pull at you. Star the ones that feel costly—those are usually the most real.
If everything else were threatened—your comfort, your reputation, your safety—which ONE value must survive for you to still be "you"?
The preceding pages mapped the immediate surface. These next five questions are designed to dig past your immediate defenses and uncover the load-bearing logic of your patterns.
Do not rush them. If a question causes an immediate feeling of resistance, annoyance, or a sudden desire to "skip it"—that is the exact question where your deepest structural weakness lies. Answer clinically and honestly.